The Big Shift:

How to Reconnect as a Couple after Becoming Parents

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Has your relationship with your partner suffered since you became parents but you don’t know what to do about it?

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Becoming a parent is an incredible experience…but it can be really hard on your relationship with your partner. Research shows that most couples experience a significant decrease in relationship satisfaction once they have a baby. And even if couples want to work on their relationship, they often don’t know where to start.

In this masterclass, I will walk you through exactly why your relationship changes in parenthood and lay out a roadmap for what’s needed to experience more joy, connection, and intimacy … even during the chaos of parenting.

In this Masterclass you’ll learn:

  1. How parenting has changed your relationship and why that is so important.

  2. Five key elements that are necessary for couples to feel connected and secure throughout the parenting years.

  3. How to identify which elements(s) you and your partner are most struggling with.

  4. How to use this understanding to make meaningful, lasting changes in your relationship.

This Masterclass is for:

  • Couples who are distant.

    You feel more like roommates than lovers. You make great co-parents, but there’s not much connection or spark between you.

  • Couples who are in conflict.

    You argue a lot and usually over the same topics. You hate arguing so much, but you don’t know how to stop. You wish you could figure out how to work through issues so that they don’t build up and lead to resentment.

  • Couples who are busy and stressed.

    You really like your partner and would love to feel more connected, but you both feel so busy and stressed that it’s hard to make time to prioritize each other.

Hi! I’m Abby.

I’m a licensed couples therapist and relationship coach.

My husband and I have been happily married for 20 years. And for 11 of those years, we’ve been parents.

We had a great relationship before we had a baby. We were close, secure, made time for each other, and generally felt very content in our relationship.

But parenting threw us for a loop. All of a sudden, the ways that we connected and prioritized each other were not available to us anymore and we had to figure out what to do. We had to figure out how to recalibrate our relationship to adjust to this new phase of life.

And we did! We figured out what was needed now that we have kids to feel close, secure, and happy (most of the time!).

And I want that for you too. I don’t want you and your partner to continue to live your lives feeling disconnected, unhappy, or resentful. That is such a hard way to live at any point - but especially during the parenting years. We need each other and if we can grow our relationship, it can provide incredible intimacy, security, and joy as we navigate the ups and downs of parenting.

I’ve taken all that I’ve learned in my own relationship and in the last 16 years of being a couples therapist and identified 5 keys to a healthy relationship during the parenting years.

And I can’t wait to share it with you!

Are you ready to reconnect?

What People Are Saying:

 

“Abby has done so much research and given the highlights and tips that are helpful to give your relationship a reset.”

-Cristina

“Hearing how common all of our new-parent struggles are made us feel like it wasn’t so personal. And helped us feel more optimistic about the future of our relationship.”

-Katrina

BONUS: 16 Creative Date Ideas for Couples with Kids

FREE GIFT for everyone who shows up LIVE

Your relationship can thrive in the parenting years.

 

But you need to know why you’re stuck and you need a roadmap to get un-stuck.

This masterclass will walk you through what’s needed for you and your partner to reconnect and recalibrate your relationship.

I hope you’ll join us.